{"id":2228,"date":"2011-03-09T12:52:52","date_gmt":"2011-03-09T12:52:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paulgoodchild.net\/blog\/?p=2228"},"modified":"2011-11-23T00:12:18","modified_gmt":"2011-11-23T00:12:18","slug":"like-travel-writing-is-best-enjoyed-when-its-shared","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paulgoodchild.me\/blog\/like-travel-writing-is-best-enjoyed-when-its-shared\/","title":{"rendered":"Like travel, writing is best enjoyed when it&#8217;s shared"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Writing.\u00a0 I enjoy it.\u00a0 I never used to like it, but each time I come to sit down here in front of the computer, I greatly enjoy the process.\u00a0 But the down-side comes under the cover of doubts and questions &#8211; does anyone actually read this stuff?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is yes &#8211; the stats of the site seem to indicate this, but when I sit down to write an article of a mainly personal nature, I often doubt there&#8217;s anyone plugged into this site enough to care.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve started and never completed countless articles because after reading the draft, it sounds silly and feels more than a little weird to bother putting it online.<\/p>\n<p>But today see me in a mood of defiance, where I&#8217;m telling myself I don&#8217;t care.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t like it, you are free to walk away.<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s nothing for you here, don&#8217;t read it, don&#8217;t bookmark it, and don&#8217;t share it.<\/p>\n<p>So there! &#8230; but I would prefer you stayed around and got involved.<\/p>\n<p>Sitting in Belfast airport, about to embark on the first leg of my travel for 2011, I&#8217;m contemplating how I will approach it, considering what lessons I learned from last year&#8217;s travel, and what insights can I bring forward with me on this journey.\u00a0 This article is a product of this process&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>Sharing is Caring<\/h2>\n<p>I re-watched the movie &#8216;Into the Wild&#8217; last week and I recommend it to anyone thinking of travelling either alone or in company.\u00a0 Sure, no-one wants to finish up as McCandless did, and we can learn from him, but there&#8217;s inspiration dished out in that film by the bucket load.<\/p>\n<p>As he lay dying in the end, he wrote down perhaps one of the greatest lessons to us all.\u00a0 A simple and beautiful observation, and one I realised once I left home a decade ago, but that my <a title=\"Introverts are not shy\" href=\"http:\/\/paulgoodchild.net\/blog\/2009\/04\/introverts-are-not-shy\/\">inner-introvert<\/a> often holds me back from.\u00a0 It is this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Happiness is only real when shared&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Of course you can have happiness without it being shared, but that kind of happiness is a rare thing compared to the alternative.<\/p>\n<p>My goal this time around is to attempt to connect as widely as I possibly can.\u00a0 Where I might shy away from people I will engage.\u00a0 I will try to say &#8216;Yes&#8217; before I can think of excuses to say &#8216;No.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Like everyone else, I&#8217;m <a title=\"Un-comfort zones point to our true fears\" href=\"http:\/\/paulgoodchild.net\/blog\/2010\/06\/un-comfort-zones-point-true-fears\/\">most at peace in my comfort zone<\/a>.\u00a0 Keeping to myself, and sus&#8217;ing out people before I engage them is a terribly bad habit of mine.\u00a0 I like to keep a distance emotionally and refrain from commitments until I know for sure I wont get messed around.<\/p>\n<p>That has its perks, but it also clearly has its downside &#8211; it means when you travel, you travel alone.\u00a0 Sure, I made some great friends last year as I travelled, but I also missed opportunities.\u00a0 This probably needs another article or two to flesh out, but for now I&#8217;m putting it online to get it out in the open, hopefully helping me to stick to it.<\/p>\n<h2>The plan: write more of the journey &#8211; both travel and business<\/h2>\n<p>With this new journey that I start today I&#8217;m hoping to throw up more articles in &#8220;travel diary&#8221; format as I move.\u00a0 I also intend to document in as much detail as time will allow, the path I take into <a title=\"Paul Goodchild Internet Business Section\" href=\"http:\/\/paulgoodchild.net\/blog\/category\/business\/\">Internet Business<\/a> which is in itself a big journey for me in 2011.\u00a0 Hopefully it&#8217;ll be a raving success and I&#8217;ll have heaps of tips and information to share that you&#8217;ll all find useful.\u00a0 Or not\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s see if I can keep to it.\u00a0 Fingers crossed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Writing, like travel and happiness is best when it is shared. 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