{"id":3733,"date":"2013-12-17T13:06:58","date_gmt":"2013-12-17T13:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paulgoodchild.net\/blog\/?p=3733"},"modified":"2013-12-17T13:08:23","modified_gmt":"2013-12-17T13:08:23","slug":"one-mans-junk-another-mans-treasure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paulgoodchild.me\/blog\/one-mans-junk-another-mans-treasure\/","title":{"rendered":"One man’s junk is another man’s treasure"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Treasure<\/a>Yesterday I had a wake up call on my arrogance.<\/p>\n

Fairly simple – I told someone, that I care deeply for, that their values were essentially not becoming of them.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t my intent to actually say that because I don’t feel that way about them, but that’s how it sounded and that’s how it was interpreted.\u00a0 So not cool.<\/p>\n

I took something that was important to them, that’s not important to me, and said I thought they could de better than waste their time focusing on that.<\/p>\n

The response I got back was immediate and heart felt, and I was ashamed. It stuck with me for the rest of the day and made me question what it was exactly I had wanted to say, and how I really felt.<\/p>\n

Who am I to insinuate to anyone that they need to spruce up their values a little; since when have I become a “values fascist”?<\/p>\n

Lesson Learned. Again.<\/h2>\n

Just because you think you might be open minded and take a live-and-let-live kind of approach, they’re all still labels at the end of the day.<\/p>\n

The danger of associating yourself too closely<\/a> with who you think you are<\/em> is still there.<\/p>\n

And that’s when arrogance creeps in and you begin to set yourself apart from others.\u00a0 When I saw that in myself yesterday, it was horrible, and a sharp reminder to wind my neck in<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Something to consider- next time we judge others for placing importance on something that we find to be “clearly” unimportant, we need to have a care that we’re not just being a prick.<\/p>\n

There is never any justification in bringing others down.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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