Tag: Personal Development
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What is YOUR deferred life plan?
What on earth does it mean – your deferred life plan? Basically it’s this: your deferred life plan is exactly what you desire to be doing now? The thing/lifestyle/state which are you putting off until after you have done what you think must be done first. Perhaps the following quote will explain where I’m headed…
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Is there a gap between you and your response?
Your response-gap is the space within which you evaluate events/stimuli in your life and respond as you see appropriate. If you don’t have, or are not conscious of, this space in your mind, you are living an robotic existence.
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Your money or your time: Put your life on a ledger
A ledger is the name given to a type of book upon which transactions, typically financial, are recorded. So how do you record your life’s transactions? Well it’s actually quite straight forward.
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Are you being specific about what you want?
Do you know what you want now? Where do you want to be, what do you want to be doing? You will never achieve them satisfactorily unless you take a few minutes to get very specific about them. It’s easy to do, and here’s how…
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Behind the mask
Sometimes when we separate ourselves from our normal day-to-day lives for an extended period we return only to find that things have changed – people, places, etc. But the change is not outside of ourselves, it is we who have changed and often it is difficult to maintain your “new” persona when confronted by the…
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We see things as we are
Your reality is defined by way you interpret it apply labels: good, bad, wonderful, terrible, exciting. How we view the world and the people in it is down how we think and evaluate them. Question your prejudices, even the ones you “know” to be true.
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Be yourself, more
I’m trying to be a little bolder in how I present my ‘self’ to the world. I’ve let it become a little faded recently, more dilute, but now I’m trying to keep in mind that who I am is important, and showing the outside world the real me is essential to staying true to myself.…
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Doubts as Companions
Doubts are a life-long companion on the road. Wherever you go, doubts are with you. That’s not a problem unless you let them prevent you from doing what you desire and what you believe in.
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The relationship game between men and women, Part 2
In my previous post, Part 1, I outlined the content of a seminar I attended a week ago that I found quite informative and served up lots of food for thought. I’ve had a chance to think much of it over, and while it has opened my mind to some things, I do have some…
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The relationship game between men and women, Part 1
Are you in a relationship? Is it wrecking your head? I recently attended a seminar in Koh Samui, Thailand, about relationships and how to “find” that wonderful partner and get the best out of our current relationships. It was a little different, discussing male and female “energies”, light and dark characteristics and how they can…
